Community Guidelines

This site exists so people at the same gym can find each other — for training, for friendship, for coaching, and for dating. Those are different things, and we keep them separate on purpose.

Respect the intent

Members choose what they are here for. If someone is listed as looking for a workout partner, do not treat their profile as a dating profile. This is the single rule that keeps the site usable.

Be a real person

Use recent photos of yourself. No stock images, no photos of other people, no accounts pretending to be someone else.

Never ask members for money

No exceptions. Anyone asking you for money, gift cards, crypto or "investment help" is running a scam — report them and we will act.

Keep it off the clock at the gym

Respect that people are there to train. Take no for an answer the first time.

Hateful conduct

We want members to be able to speak freely here, disagree, and be themselves. That freedom stops at the point where it is used to target another member for who they are — every member has a right to use this site without being threatened or degraded because of their identity.

Hateful conduct directed at a member because of their race, ethnicity, national origin, caste, sexual orientation, gender, gender identity, religious affiliation, age, disability, or serious disease is not allowed.

In private messages

Do not send another member any of the following: a violent threat, a wish of serious harm, slurs or tropes directed at them, language that dehumanizes them, or a hateful reference to a violent event that targets a group they belong to.

Zero tolerance

Violent threats, hate speech, and anything involving a minor result in immediate, permanent suspension. A suspended member is emailed a link to appeal the decision.

What this does not cover

Targeted misgendering and deadnaming are not, on their own, violations of this policy. Gender identity remains a protected characteristic under every rule above, and a member who sustains a pattern of targeting another member — including through repeated misgendering or deadnaming — is covered by our harassment rules.

Reporting

Every profile and conversation has a report option. Reports involving threats, hate speech, or the safety of a minor are prioritized. Contact [email protected] if you need to reach a human.